Saturday, March 30, 2013

Phase 2 of Training!



Wow I am just realizing it has almost been three weeks since I have officially been on site! Time sometimes seems to go so slowly then I realize wow it has already been a month! I will start by bullet pointing some recent events just in case I leave anything out in this description.
-I am living in Digwale, about 2 hours from Pretoria.
-I am in a one bedroom home in the local village
-I have electricity but no running water so I fill up 5 or 6 jugs at my organization’s tap about once a week
-I have gotten REALLY good at one-pot cooking and eating (I don’t even know why I bought plates..)
-I am throwing all of my energy into decorating my new place and looking for a bedspread!
-Getting my roof fixed and hearing the rain fall without getting wet and buying a BIG bucket to bathe in were awesome highlights of my week J
-Support from other volunteers is really important, and I learn that more and more every day
-The closest volunteer from my cohort is about 3-5 hours from me on multiple taxis, but other education volunteers share a shopping town with me so I see them about once every couple weeks
-I have the sweetest neighbors who always greet me, and every day I feel more integrated into site, the more people I meet
-my neighbors have started running with me in the mornings J
-My community named me “Karabo,” meaning Answer in Sepedi
-I plan to teach in primary schools during the majority of my service
-I am learning to live in a completely different way, and that is not always easy
-I MISS my host family from training! I know I will definitely continue to visit them during my service
-I went to a traditional South African wedding and it was AWESOME!
-I bought a fridge! It is the greatest.
Hmm well I think I left off right about when we were going to site! So after our shopping day in Polokwane, we had one more dinner with our host families and were picked up around 6 in the morning to be taken to supervisor’s workshop, a three day retreat where we met our organization supervisors, got to stay in a nice hotel, and go over our expectations as volunteers. This is now phase 2 of training, the 8 week period where I live in my permanent site, scope it out, attempt to integrate into my community, form relationships, and write a community needs assessment. The supervisor’s workshop was a great place to take a second and breathe and say some last goodbyes to those in my province, and meeting one of my org supervisors was really cool! Mable came to meet me, and she is one of the project managers at Boiketlo Health Care Center, where I work. On Tuesday morning, we all gathered our bags and got into separate taxis (luckily Peace Corps drove me so I did not have to worry about all my bags) with our supervisors and headed to site. Our workshop was in Haveview, about a 7 hour drive from my site. South Africa is HUGE haha. So, around 9 PM, my landlord, Mr. Malaza, let me into my new place. Needless to say this was entirely overwhelming. It was dark out, I was all alone, and I was exhausted but wanted to unpack and make this place home as soon as possible. I took a deep breath, texted my mom (thank GOODNESS for technology!) and started to unpack my things. I live in a one bedroom house (not one BEDroom, one room), and I have no host family. I am next door to a couple but for the most part I am alone. Luckily I have awesome neighbors and a very cute dog that greets me every time I come home J.
                My day to day life here is not exactly routine yet because I am constantly meeting tons of people and getting to know my community. Usually I wake up around 5 in the morning, have coffee and read for about an hour, go for a run, have some breakfast, bathe, and then go to my organization where I meet school faculties, city council, health clinic workers, etc. to try and get an idea of what life is like here. Then around 2, the organization closes, I go home, go for a walk, try to meet some new families in my community, read some more, work on my CNA, make dinner, and sleep. My organization is a drop in center for orphans to get food, although right now due to lack of funding there is no food supply. They also provide home based care for those suffering from illness, providing emotional support, and volunteering at the local clinic. During my service, I think I will most likely be teaching English and life skills classes at local schools, and hopefully teaching dance, and volunteering at the local pre-school while still helping my org spread awareness about their services. However, all of this is very up in the air right now.
 I guess one of the hardest parts of Phase 2 is knowing that no matter what you do, it will take a lot of time before you are integrated, feel at home, settle into a routine, or even start projects, maybe even an entire year. As Americans, we want instant results. We want to walk in, snap our fingers and get what we want no matter where we are. In the Peace Corps, and in life, that is just not realistic. I need to get to know my community on a personal level before I even think of starting projects or getting people to want to hear any input I have. Rightfully so, I can’t imagine if some random young woman from another country just popped into my life and tried to tell me her ideas!
                The biggest thing I am trying to be good at doing right now is going with the flow. I meet new people every day, try to form new relationships, and just take my time settling in here. It is definitely not second nature for me, but reading, journaling, exercise, and the support from those at home and other volunteers really helps with the transition. I wish I had more to say but I am sure I will once phase 2 comes to an end and I head back for more training. This coming weekend, I am going to Nelspruit to celebrate Easter with one of my dearest PCV friends, so definitely looking forward to that J.
Some descriptions of the photos I post: There are pictures of a volunteer goodbye barbeque we had back in our training village, pictures of my home, my little dog friend that visits me, supervisor's workshop,



flowers my child neighbors leave on my front door step, children in local primary schools, pictures of a South African wedding I attended, views from around my village, uh, that is all I can think of right now but if you have questions, let me know!
 
Xoxo,
H

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Friday, March 8, 2013

Sweat, Carbs, and New Friends!



Wellll…where to begin? It has been a whirlwind six weeks. I guess first off let me say, blog postings will maybe happen once a month if I have internet access that often. Buying a personal modem would cost me a FORTUNE and keep me from integrating into site as much as I want to, so I am going to write blogs and post multiple when I can go into my shopping town or the Peace Corps office. Just a disclaimer..so be patient! J. As for other housekeeping stuff, I will get my PERMANENT ADDRESS this coming week, so please hold off on mail until I let you know!
I will start by giving a brief timeline. I arrived in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania on January 22nd and was greeted by my incredible friend, Bryan Hang, from Tom Sawyer Camps, who picked me up, took me to dinner and hung out with me for a little bit before I went back to my hotel. I had a roommate (who actually lived and worked in Glendale and went to UC Davis) and we hung out with a couple other volunteers before we went to bed. The next day, staging started at noon so I cherished one last work out in an air conditioned gym, bought a huge starbucks coffee and made some impulse purchases at Target before heading in to meet everyone. Staging is a lot of paperwork and icebreakers, and a lot of basics in terms of possible challenges we might face at site. After a long day of that, we all went to a happy hour that our hotel threw for us and downed some last bites of American food before heading into our rooms to do some final packing (for me weighing my luggage again and again and again) and cherishing hot showers and cable tv! Staging is very emotional (or at least it was for me) because although you have left and said all of your goodbyes, you are still in the states. You still have your cell phone, you still are surrounded by a familiar culture, and you are just waiting to get on that plane to your country of service. We were also all so exhausted because after a full day of staging, we left the hotel at one in the morning to get on a bus to JFK airport in New York, where we waited to get on a ten AM flight for hours and hours. By that point, I was trying to hold it together and stifle tears until I at least got on the plane! Very overwhelming. However, after one last meal (obviously) we all boarded successfully and took off on a direct flight to sunny South Africa!
As soon we got off the plane we were greeted by a HUGE banner and many members of Peace Corps staff. So sweet of them to meet us! From there, we all boarded a huge bus that took us about four hours to Mokopane, the area where we would have training. The second we got off the bus we were greeted by songs and dancing (South Africans are SO good at both!) and a huge lunch of traditional South African food including beets, cabbage, butternut squash, potatoes, rice, pap, chicken, beef, etc. We got a little pep talk and some introductions, but could barely register anything since we were so jet-lagged and tired! We then settled into our dorms at FET College, where we would be for the next week. The next week, from about 8 to 5 or 6 every day, we attended classes and workshops, got vaccines, and oriented ourselves to where we were. That Friday, we got our homestay announcements! I have been chosen for homestays before when I studied abroad, and as nerve racking as that was, this was way worse! I think it was a little bit of nerves and exhaustion, but as families got announced and all of these people came running towards us with hugs and huge smiles, I was so touched and overwhelmed! They were so excited to see us and it was relieving yet completely shocking all at once! Once we went home with our families, I was with my families’ sibling’s family (hope that makes sense..) until my family got home from work around 7 PM. Needless to say, once I finally got there, I went to bed so early!
For the first six weeks, I lived with the Kekana family. This included Kenneth, the father, Eunice, the mother, Alfred, the fourteen year old son, and the two other older siblings live in Johannesburg and Pretoria, where they attend school. I don’t know how else to say, I LOVE MY HOST FAMILY! Never in my life have I met people who are more kind, welcoming, and loving towards someone they barely know. They treat me like their own daughter. If they notice I eat a lot of fruits, the fridge will be stocked with new fruits every week. If I make one comment about liking a certain dish, it is now served with whatever we are having and if its not, I get an apology for it. Unreal! Not only do they cater to my needs, they are just so kind. It is so nice to know I come home every day to a group of people who truly wants to know how my day was, how I am doing, and how they can help me. I feel so fortunate and will truly miss them so much once I am at site.
So I guess I will give a general description of what my days have been like the past six weeks because they have mostly been the same haha. Sorry if this is getting long! I usually wake up around 5:15 in the morning, make some instant coffee first thing, say hi to my host family, read a book or study, then go for a run either alone or with a couple other volunteers who meet up with me in the mornings. Then, around 6:45 I get home, make more coffee (always essential no matter the country),take a bath and get ready for school. Then I usually pack my lunch, eat some breakfast, and head to my language class, which is held down the street with our teacher, Guagelo, and two other volunteers. We learn new words or scenarios for a couple hours, then we walk to the community hall (or sometimes we take taxis back to FET college) where we have sessions all day on topics like gender relations, South African history, economic disparity, cultural norms, etc. Then, I walk home, help my host mom make dinner, eat dinner with my family, help clean, pass out around 8:30 or 9, and do it all over again! Occasionally we have Sundays off so I usually use that time to do laundry and rest as much as I can.
Not sure what else to say so I guess I will conclude with random details! South African culture and scenery are two of the most beautiful and awe-inspiring things I have seen since I have been here. GORGEOUS sunsets and star sightings, incredible rain, lightning and thunder storms, rainbows, kids FULL of smiles constantly saying hi as you walk down the street, and people who just look out for one another. Whether it is stopping to say hi to every neighbor as you walk down your path to work, or dropping off birthday cake that you have left over at your neighbors house just because, these people really do it right. They accept that people need each other, and they consider their neighbors and friends, their family. I love it.
What else..other volunteers and staff! Other trainees are really cool! So exciting to meet people from all over the US and know we all have this in common. I am lucky to say I will have an amazing support system here, and cannot wait to get to know them better! Now for the last part…site announcements!
This Sunday, I move to site for two months. My site is in Mpumalanga province, close to Pretoria on the western side. I am about 3 hours from the Mozambique border in between a couple game reserves and sharing a shopping town with some awesome volunteers from my cohort! I will be working in a health care center, focusing on youth and people living with HIV/AIDS. I am so thrilled! During those two months I will settle in, meet my community, and do a community needs assessment. From there, I will come back to Mokopane for another six weeks, to this host family, and do some technical training and swear in. We are the first group to try this training model, so we will see how it goes!
Upon leaving and even now I have to say just how blessed I feel to have such incredible friends and family at home. You all have been so supportive and amazing and I cannot thank you enough for how amazing you are! You guys mean the world to me and I think about all of you every single day. Missing you tons!
I think that is all for now, stay posted for mailing address updates and I hope you enjoyed it! J

All my love,
H

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